CMM

The theory I would most like to learn more about is coordinated management theory. This was one of the first theories in the book and one of the first that really made me want to learn about comm theory. One of the things that intrigued me about this theory was how it solves a problem. It uses special techniques to successfully solve a problem. On the chart on page 484 I noticed that of all the 10 threads, coordinated management theory includes 6. I have been looking into getting certified to be a mediator and understanding more about CMM would help to accomplish that goal.

Self-image

In chapter 36 Griffin links some of different theories using common threads or ideas that the theories have in common. one of the concepts I identified with the most was self-image. Griffin says that "communication affects and is affected by our sense of identity, which is strongly shaped within the context of our culture." (Griffin 474). Identity is so important because we need it in order to communicate and it is what makes up what is culture. Without having an identity there would be no communication or culture. There are many different theories that have identity and culture as a common thread. Some of those theories are Mead's symbolic interactionalism, Ting-toomey's face negotiation theory and, Giles' communication accomodation theory. Self image is how we see ourselves. Our self-image affects and influences the way we communicate. As Griffin says in his cause for pause, we have all been put down by others, that would affect how we feel and in turn affect how we treat others. When Im having a bad day and my self-esttem is low, it's hard to smile and be cordial to others. Self image is a very important part of communication.

Reflecting on 101

As I was reading chapter 36, I was really surprised at how well I knew the theories he tied together. When I think back to the first week of class I remembered being totally overwhelmed. The last thing I wanted to learn about was a bunch of boring theories I wouldn't understand and never have any use for. I was totally wrong. My friends and family can tell you that I constantly am telling them about a theory that would help them. My sister was contemplating breaking up with her boyfriend, she felt that the relationship had grown boring and wondered why, I read her some of the relationship maintenance theories and she understood why things were the way they were. Communication is the key to all relationships and the theories we have learned can only improve it.